Actually, you choose which one emerges... ******* You can live your life this way.
You can also live like that.
It's up to you...
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It's hard to decipher and I am in good position, as a wife, mother, and coach, to understand the challenge.
However, it is only from the moment we accept to take this responsibility, (completely...), that we take things into our own hands and finally change what happens to us.
WE LIVE WHAT WE BELIEVE
HUH? ! This is so tough to understand that we may feel deserving of these problems ... not feeling worthy of being loved ... not being able to have a good job, better wages or a career promotion ...
LUCKILY, ALL THIS ISN'T FOR NOTHING IN YOUR LIFE:
SUFFERING CAN BE A TYPE OF HELP, A SIGN.
You have things to figure out from these experiences and the first of them is to agree to be ... perhaps .... another woman than the one you always believed to be.
And if TRULY, you were kind, capable, cheerful ??
Now, make a change with the little "voice" into your head and replace it with the one of THE WOMAN WHO DESERVES THE BEST !!
You'll see, IT'S MAGIC your world is going to change:-)